'Mass
Communication and Para-Social Interaction: Observations on Intimacy
at a Distance'
Particip@tions Volume 3, Issue 1 (May 2006)
Mass
Communication and Para-Social Interaction: Observations on Intimacy
at a Distance
One of the striking characteristics of the new
mass media – radio, television, and the movies – is that they
give the illusion of face-to-face relationship with the
performer. The conditions of response to the performer are
analogous to those in a primary group. The most remote and
illustrious men are met as if they were in the circle of one’s
peers; the same is true of a character in a story who comes to
life in these media in an especially vivid and arresting way.
We propose to call this seeming face-to-face relationship
between spectator and performer a para-social relationship.
In television, especially, the image which is
presented makes available nuances of appearance and gesture to
which ordinary social perception is attentive and to which
interaction is cued. Sometimes the ‘actor’ – whether he is
playing himself or performing in a fictional role – is seen
engaged with others; but often he faces the spectator, uses the
mode of direct address, talks as if he were conversing
personally and privately. The audience, for its part, responds
with something more than mere running observation; it is, as it
were, subtly insinuated into the program’s action and internal
social relationships and, by dint of this kind of staging, is
ambiguously transformed into a group which observes and
participates in the show by turns. The more the performer seems
to adjust his performance to the supposed response of the
audience, the more the audience tends to make the response
anticipated. This simulacrum of conversational give and take
may be called para-social interaction.
Para-social relations may be governed by little
or no sense of obligation, effort, or responsibility on the part
of the spectator. He is free to withdraw at any moment. If he
remains involved, these para-social relations provide a
framework within which much may be added by fantasy. But these
are differences of degree, not of kind, from what may be termed
the ortho-social. The crucial difference in experience
obviously lies in the lack of effective reciprocity, and this
the audience cannot normally conceal from itself. To be sure,
the audience is free to choose among the relationships offered,
but it cannot create new ones. The interaction,
characteristically, is one-sided, nondialectical, controlled by
the performer, and not susceptible of mutual development. There
are, of course, ways in which the spectators can make their
feelings known to the performers and the technicians who design
the programs, but these lie outside the para-social interaction
itself. Whoever finds the experience unsatisfying has only the
option to withdraw.
What we have said so far forcibly recalls the
theatre as an ambiguous meeting ground on which real people play
out the roles of fictional characters. For a brief interval,
the fictional takes precedence over the actual, as the actor be
comes identified with the fictional role in the magic of the
theatre. This glamorous confusion of identities is temporary:
the worlds of fact and fiction meet only for the moment. And
the actor, when he takes his bows at the end of the performance,
crosses back over the threshold into the matter-of-fact world.
Radio and television, however – and in what
follows we shall speak primarily of television – are hospitable
to both these worlds in continuous interplay. extending the
para-social relationship now to leading people of the world of
affairs, now to fictional characters, sometimes even to puppets
anthropomorphically transformed into “personalities,” and,
finally, to theatrical stars who appear in their capacities as
real celebrities. But of particular interest is the creation by
these media of a new type of performer: quizmasters, announcers,
“interviewers” in a new “show-business” world – in brief, a
special category of “personalities” whose existence is a
function of the media themselves. These “personalities,”
usually, are not prominent in any of the social spheres beyond
the media[1]
They exist for their audiences only in the para-social
relation. Lacking an appropriate name for these performers, we
shall call them personae.
The Role of the Persona
The persona is the typical and indigenous figure of
the social scene presented by radio and television. To say that he
is familiar and intimate is to use pale and feeble language for the
pervasiveness and closeness with which multitudes feel his
presence. The spectacular fact about such personae is that they can
claim and achieve an intimacy with what are literally crowds of
strangers, and this intimacy, even if it is an imitation and a
shadow of what is ordinarily meant by that word, is extremely
influential with, and satisfying for, the great numbers who
willingly receive it and share in it. They “know” such a persona in
somewhat the same way they know their chosen friends: through direct
observation and interpretation of his appearance, his gestures and
voice, his conversation and conduct in a variety of situations.
Indeed, those who make up his audience are invited, by designed
informality, to make precisely these evaluations – to consider that
they are involved in a face-to-face exchange rather than in passive
observation. When the television camera pans down on a performer,
the illusion is strong that he is enhancing the presumed intimacy by
literally coming closer. But the persona’s image, while partial,
contrived, and penetrated by illusion, is no fantasy or dream; his
performance is an objectively perceptible action in which the viewer
is implicated imaginatively, but which he does not imagine.
The persona offers,
above all, a continuing relationship. His appearance is a regular
and dependable event, to be counted on, planned for, and integrated
into the routines of daily life. His devotees ‘live with him’ and
share the small episodes of his public life – and to some extent
even of his private life away from the show. Indeed, their
continued association with him acquires a history, and the
accumulation of shared past experiences gives additional meaning to
the present performance. This bond is symbolized by allusions that
lack meaning for the casual observer and appear occult to the
outsider. In time, the devotee – the “fan” – comes to believe that
he “knows” the persona more intimately and profoundly than others
do; that he “understands” his character and appreciates his values
and motives.[2]
Such an accumulation of knowledge and intensification of loyalty,
however, appears to be a kind of growth without development, for the
one-sided nature of the connection precludes a progressive and
mutual reformulation of its values and aims.[3]
The persona may be considered by his audience as a
friend, counsellor, comforter, and model; but, unlike real
associates, he has the peculiar virtue of being standardized
according to the “formula” for his character and performance which
he and his managers have worked out and embodied in an appropriate
“production format.” Thus his character and pattern of action
remain basically unchanged in a world of otherwise disturbing
change. The persona is ordinarily predictable, and gives his
adherents no unpleasant surprises. In their association with him
there are no problems of understanding or empathy too great to be
solved. Typically, there are no challenges to a spectator’s self –
to his ability to take the reciprocal part in the performance that
is assigned to him – that cannot be met comfortably. This reliable
sameness is only approximated, and then only in the short run, by
the figures of fiction. On television, Groucho is always sharp;
Godfrey is always warm-hearted.
The Bond of Intimacy
It is an unvarying characteristic of these
“personality” programs that the greatest pains are taken by the
persona to create an illusion of intimacy. We call it an illusion
because the relationship between the persona and any member of his
audience is inevitably one-sided, and reciprocity between the two
can only be suggested. There are several principal strategies for
achieving this illusion of intimacy.
Most characteristic is the attempt of the persona to
duplicate the gestures, conversational style, and milieu of an
informal face-to-face gathering. This accounts, in great measure,
for the casualness with which even the formalities of program
scheduling are treated. The spectator is encouraged to gain the
impression that what is taking place on the program gains a momentum
of its own in the very process of being enacted. Thus Steve Alien
is always pointing out to his audience that “we never know what is
going to happen on this show.” In addition, the persona tries to
maintain a flow of small talk which gives the impression that he is
responding to and sustaining the contributions of an invisible
interlocutor. Dave Garroway, who has mastered this style to
perfection, has described how he stumbled on the device in his early
days in radio.
Most talk on the radio
in those days was formal and usually a little stiff. But I just
rambled along, saying whatever came into my mind. I was
introspective. I tried to pretend that I was chatting with a friend
over a highball late in the evening. Then – and later – I
consciously tried to talk to the listener as an individual, to make
each listener feel that he knew me and I knew him. It seemed to
work pretty well then and later. I know that strangers often stop
me on the street today, call me Dave and seem to feel that we are
old friends who know all about each other.[4]
In addition to creating an appropriate tone and
patter, the persona tries as far as possible to eradicate, or at
least to blur, the line which divides him and his show, as a formal
performance, from the audience both in the studio and at home. The
most usual way of achieving this ambiguity is for the persona to
treat his supporting cast as a group of close intimates. Thus all
the members of the cast will be addressed by their first names, or
by special nicknames, to emphasize intimacy. They very quickly
develop, or have imputed to them, stylized character traits which,
as members of the supporting cast, they will indulge in and
exploit-regularly in program after program. The member of the
audience, therefore, not only accumulates an historical picture of
“the kinds of people they really are,” but tends to believe that
this fellowship includes him by extension. As a matter of fact, all
members of the program who are visible to the audience will be drawn
into this by-play to suggest this ramification of intimacy.
Furthermore, the persona may try to step out of the
particular format of his show and literally blend with the
audience. Most usually, the persona leaves the stage and mingles
with the studio audience in a question-and-answer exchange. In some
few cases, and particularly on the Steve Alien show, this device has
been carried a step further. Thus Alien has managed to blend even
with the home audience by the maneuver of training a television
camera on the street outside the studio and, in effect, suspending
his own show and converting all the world outside into a stage.
Alien, his supporting cast, and the audience, both at home and in
the studio, watch together what transpires on the street – the
persona and his spectators symbolically united as one big audience.
In this way, Alien erases for the moment the line which separates
persona and spectator.
In addition to the management of relationships
between the persona and performers, and between him and his
audience, the technical devices of the media themselves are
exploited to create illusions of intimacy.
For example [Dave
Garroway explains in this connection], we developed the
“subjective-camera” idea, which was simply making the camera be the
eyes of the audience. In one scene the camera – that’s you, the
viewer – approached the door of a dentist’s office, saw a sign that
the dentist was out to lunch, sat down nervously in the waiting
room. The dentist returned and beckoned to the camera, which went
in and sat in the big chair. “Open wide,” the dentist said, poking
a huge, wicked-looking drill at the camera. There was a roar as the
drill was turned on, sparks flew and the camera vibrated and the
viewers got a magnified version of sitting in the dentist’s chair –
except that it didn’t hurt.[5]
All these devices are indulged in not only to lure
the attention of the audience, and to create the easy impression
that there is a kind of participation open to them in the program
itself, but also to highlight the chief values stressed in such
“personality” shows. These are sociability, easy affability,
friendship, and close contact – briefly, all the values associated
with free access to and easy participation in pleasant social
interaction in primary groups. Because the relationship between
persona and audience is one-sided and cannot be developed mutually,
very nearly the whole burden of creating a plausible imitation of
intimacy is thrown on the persona and on the show of which he is the
pivot. If he is successful in initiating an intimacy which his
audience can believe in, then the audience may help him maintain it
by fan mail and by the various other kinds of support which can be
provided indirectly to buttress his actions.
The Role of the Audience
At one extreme, the
“personality” program is like a drama in having a cast of
characters, which includes the persona, his professional supporting
cast, non-professional contestants and interviewees, and the studio
audience. At the other extreme, the persona addresses his entire
performance to the home audience with undisturbed intimacy. In the
dramatic type of program, the participation of the spectator
involves, we presume, the same taking of successive roles and deeper
empathic involvements in the leading roles which occurs in any
observed social interaction.[6]It
is possible that the spectator’s “collaborative expectancy”[7]may assume the more profound form of identification with one
or more of the performers. But such identification can hardly be
more than intermittent. The “personality” program, unlike the
theatrical drama, does not demand or even permit the esthetic
illusion – that loss of situational reference and self-consciousness
in which the audience not only accepts the symbol as reality, but
fully assimilates the symbolic role. The persona and his staff
maintain the para-social relationship, continually referring to and
addressing the home audience as a third party to the program; and
such references remind the spectator of his own independent
identity. The only illusion maintained is that of directness and
immediacy of participation.
When the persona appears alone, in apparent
face-to-face interaction with the home viewer, the latter is still
more likely to maintain his own identity without interruption, for
he is called upon to make appropriate responses which are
complementary to those of the persona. This ‘answering’ role is, to
a degree, voluntary and independent. In it, the spectator retains
control over the content of his participation rather than
surrendering control through identification with others, as he does
when absorbed in watching a drama or movie.
This independence is
relative, however, in a twofold sense: First, it is relative in the
profound sense that the very act of entering into any interaction
with another involves some adaptation to the other’s perspectives,
if communication is to be achieved at all. And, second, in the
present case, it is relative because the role of the persona is
enacted in such a way, or is of such a character, that an
appropriate answering role is specified by implication and
suggestion. The persona’s performance, therefore, is open-ended,
calling for a rather specific answering role to give it closure.[8]
The general outlines of the appropriate audience role
are perceived intuitively from familiarity with the common cultural
patterns on which the role of the persona is constructed. These
roles are chiefly derived from the primary relations of friendship
and the family, characterized by intimacy, sympathy, and
sociability. The audience is expected to accept the situation
defined by the program format as credible, and to concede as
“natural” the rules and conventions governing the actions performed
and the values realized. It should play the role of the loved one
to the persona’s lover; the admiring dependent to his
father-surrogate; the earnest citizen to his fearless opponent of
political evils. It is expected to benefit by his wisdom, reflect
on his advice, sympathize with him in his difficulties, forgive his
mistakes, buy the products that he recommends, and keep his sponsor
informed of the esteem in which he is held.
Other attitudes than compliance in the assigned role
are, of course, possible. One may reject, take an analytical
stance, perhaps even find a cynical amusement in refusing the
offered gambit and playing some other role not implied in the
script, or view the proceedings with detached curiosity or
hostility. But such attitudes as these are, usually, for the
one-time viewer. The faithful audience is one that can accept the
gambit offered; and the functions of the program for this audience
are served not by the mere perception of it, but by the
role-enactment that completes it.
The Coaching of Audience Attitudes
Just how the situation
should be defined by the audience, what to expect of the persona,
what attitudes to take toward him, what to ‘do’ as a participant in
the program, is not left entirely to the common experience and
intuitions of the audience. Numerous devices are used in a
deliberate “coaching of attitudes,” to use Kenneth Burke’s phrase.[9] The typical program format calls for a studio audience to
provide a situation of face-to-face interaction for the persona, and
exemplifies to the home audience an enthusiastic and ‘correct’
response. The more interaction occurs, the more clearly is
demonstrated the kind of man the persona is, the values to be shared
in association with him, and the kind of support to give him. A
similar model of appropriate response may be supplied by the
professional assistants who, though technically performers, act in a
subordinate and deferential reciprocal relation toward the persona.
The audience is schooled in correct responses to the persona by a
variety of other means as well. Other personae may be invited as
guests, for example, who play up to the host in exemplary fashion;
or persons drawn from the audience may be manoeuvred into fulfilling
this function. And, in a more direct and literal fashion, reading
excerpts from fan-mail may serve the purpose.
Beyond the coaching of
specific attitudes toward personae, a general propaganda on their
behalf flows from the performers themselves, their press agents, and
the mass communication industry. Its major theme is that the
performer should be loved and admired. Every attempt possible is
made to strengthen the illusion of reciprocity and rapport in order
to offset the inherent impersonality of the media themselves. The
jargon of show business teems with special terms for the mysterious
ingredients of such rapport: ideally, a performer should have
“heart,” should be “sincere”;[10]
his performance should be “real” and “warm.”[11]The publicity campaigns built around successful performers
continually emphasize the X sympathetic image which, it is hoped,
the X audience is perceiving and developing.[12] The audience, in its turn, is expected to contribute to the
illusion by believing in it, and by rewarding the persona’s
“sincerity” with “loyalty.” The audience is entreated to assume a
sense of personal obligation to the performer, to help him in his
struggle for “success” if he is “on the way up,” or to maintain his
success if he has already won it. “Success” in show business is
itself a theme which is prominently exploited in this kind of
propaganda. It forms the basis of many movies; it appears often in
the patter of the leading comedians and in the exhortations of MC’s;
it dominates the so-called amateur hours and talent shows; and it is
subject to frequent comment in interviews with “show people.”[13]
Conditions of Acceptance of the Para-Social Role by
the Audience
The acceptance by the audience of the role offered by
the program involves acceptance of the explicit and implicit terms
which define the situation and the action to be carried out in the
program. Unless the spectator understands these terms, the role
performances of the participants are meaningless to him; and unless
he accepts them, he cannot ‘enter into’ the performance himself.
But beyond this, the spectator must be able to play the part
demanded of him; and this raises the question of the compatibility
between his normal self – as a system of role-patterns and
self-conceptions with their implicated norms and values – and the
kind of self postulated by the program schema and the actions of the
persona. In short, one may conjecture that the probability of
rejection of the proffered role will be greater the less closely the
spectator ‘fits’ the role prescription.
To accept the gambit
without the necessary personality ‘qualifications’ is to invite
increasing dissatisfaction and” alienation – which the student of
the media can overcome only by a deliberate, imaginative effort to
take the postulated role. The persona himself takes the role of his
projected audience in the interpretation of his own actions, often
with the aid of cues provided by a studio audience. He builds his
performance on a cumulative structure of assumptions about their
response, and so postulates – more or less consciously – the complex
of attitudes to which his own actions are adapted. A spectator who
fails to make the anticipated responses will find himself further
and further removed from the base-line of common understanding.[14] One would expect the ‘error’ to be cumulative, and
eventually to be carried, perhaps, to the point at which the
spectator is forced to resign in confusion, disgust, anger, or
boredom. If a significant portion of the audience fails in this
way, the persona’s “error in role-taking”[15] has to be corrected with the aid of audience research,
“program doctors,” and other aids. But, obviously, the intended
adjustment is to some average or typical spectator, and cannot take
too much account of deviants. The simplest example of such a
failure to fulfill the role prescription would be the case of an
intellectual discussion in which the audience is presumed to have
certain basic knowledge and the ability to follow the development of
the argument. Those who cannot meet these requirements find the
discussion progressively less comprehensible. A similar progressive
alienation probably occurs when children attempt to follow an adult
program or movie. One observes them absorbed in the opening scenes,
but gradually losing interest as the developing action leaves them
behind. Another such situation might be found in the growing
confusion and restiveness of some audiences watching foreign movies
or “high-brow” drama. Such resistance is also manifested when some
members of an audience are asked to take the opposite-sex role – the
woman’s perspective is rejected more commonly by men than vice versa
– or when audiences refuse to accept empathically the roles of
outcasts or those of racial or cultural minorities whom they
consider inferior.[16]
It should be observed that merely witnessing a
program is not evidence that a spectator has played the required
part. Having made the initial commitment, he may “string along”
with it at a low level of empathy but reject it retrospectively.
The experience does not end with the program itself. On the
contrary, it may be only after it has ended that it is submitted to
intellectual analysis and integrated into, or rejected by, the self;
this occurs especially in those discussions which the spectator may
undertake with other people in which favorable or unfavorable
consensual interpretations and judgments are arrived at. It is
important to enter a qualification at this point. The suspension of
immediate judgment is probably more complete in the viewing of the
dramatic program, where there is an esthetic illusion to be
accepted, than in the more self-conscious viewing of “personality”
programs.
Values of the Para-Social Role for the Audience
What para-social roles
are acceptable to the spectator and what benefits their enactment
has for him would seem to be related to the systems of patterned
roles and social situations in which he is involved in his everyday
life. The values of a para-social role may be related, for example,
to the demands being made upon the spectator for achievement in
certain statuses. Such demands, to pursue this instance further,
may be manifested in the expectations of others, or they may be
self-demands, with the concomitant emergence of more or less
satisfactory self-conceptions. The enactment of a para-social role
may therefore constitute an exploration and development of new role
possibilities, as in the experimental phases of actual, or aspired
to, social mobility.[17] It may offer a recapitulation of roles no longer played –
roles which, perhaps, are no longer possible. The audience is
diversified in terms of life-stages, as well as by other social and
cultural characteristics; thus, what for youth may be the
anticipatory enactment of roles to be assumed in the future may be,
for older persons, a reliving and re-evaluation of the actual or
imagined past.
The enacted role may be an idealized version of an
everyday performance – a ‘successful’ para-social approximation of
an ideal pattern, not often, perhaps never, achieved in real life.
Here the contribution of the persona may be to hold up a magic
mirror to his followers, playing his reciprocal part more skillfully
and ideally than do the partners of the real world. So Liberace,
for example, outdoes the ordinary husband in gentle understanding,
or Nancy Berg outdoes the ordinary wife in amorous complaisance.
Thus, the spectator may be enabled to play his part suavely and
completely in imagination as he is unable to do in actuality.
If we have emphasized
the opportunities offered for playing a vicarious or actual role, it
is because we regard this as the key operation in the spectator’s
activity, and the chief avenue of the program’s meaning for him.
This is not to overlook the fact that every social role is
reciprocal to the social roles of others, and that it is as
important to learn to understand, to decipher, and to anticipate
their conduct as it is to manage one’s own. The function of the
mass media, and of the programs we have been discussing, is also the
exemplification of the patterns of conduct one needs to understand
and cope with in others as well as of those patterns which one must
apply to one’s self. Thus the spectator is instructed variously in
the behaviors of the opposite sex, of people of higher and lower
status, of people in particular occupations and professions. In a
quantitative sense, by reason of the sheer volume of such
instruction, this may be the most important aspect of the para-social
experience, if only because each person’s roles are relatively few,
while those of the others in his social worlds are very numerous.
In this culture, it is evident that to be prepared to meet all the
exigencies of a changing social situation, no matter how limited it
may be, could – and often does – require a great stream of plays and
stories, advice columns and social how-to-do-it books. What, after
all, is soap opera but an interminable exploration of he
contingencies to be met with in “home life?”[18]
In addition to the possibilities we have already
mentioned, the media present opportunities for the playing of roles
to which the spectator has – or feels he has – a legitimate claim,
but for which he finds no opportunity hi his social environment.
This function of the para-social then can properly be called
compensatory, inasmuch as it provides the socially and
psychologically isolated with a chance to enjoy the elixir of
sociability. The “personality” program – in contrast to the drama –
is especially designed to provide occasion for good-natured joking
and teasing, praising and admiring, gossiping and telling anecdotes,
in which the values of friendship and intimacy are stressed.
It is typical of the
“personality” programs that ordinary people are shown being treated,
for the moment, as persons of consequence. In the interviews of
non-professional contestants, the subject may be praised for having
children – whether few or many does not matter; he may be flattered
on his youthful appearance; and he is likely to be honored the more
– with applause from the studio audience – the longer he has been
“successfully” married. There is even applause, and a consequent
heightening of ceremony and importance for the person being
interviewed, at mention of the town he lives in. In all this, the
values realized for the subject are those of a harmonious,
successful participation in one’s appointed place in the social
order. The subject is represented as someone secure in the
affections and respect of others, and he probably senses the
experience as a gratifying reassurance of social solidarity and
self-confidence. For the audience, in the studio and at home, it is
a model of appropriate role performance – as husband, wife, mother,
as “attractive” middle age, “remarkably youthful” old age, and the
like. It is, furthermore, a demonstration of the fundamental
generosity and good will of all concerned, including, of course, the
commercial sponsor. But unlike a similar exemplification
of happy sociability in a play or a novel, the television[19]
or radio program is real; that is to say, it is enveloped in the
continuing reassurances and gratifications of objective responses.
For instance there may be telephone calls to “outside” contestants,
the receipt and acknowledgement of re quests from the home audience,
and so on. Almost every member of the home audience is left with
the comfortable feeling that he too, if he wished, could
appropriately take part in this healing ceremony.
Extreme Para-Sociability
For the great majority
of the audience, the para-social is complementary to normal social
life. It provides a social milieu in which the everyday assumptions
and understandings of primary group interaction and sociability are
demonstrated and reaffirmed. The “personality” program, however, is
peculiarly favorable to the formation of compensatory attachments by
the socially isolated, the socially inept, the aged and invalid, the
timid and rejected. The persona himself is readily available as an
object of love – especially when he succeeds in cultivating the
recommended quality of “heart.” Nothing could be more reasonable or
natural than that people who are isolated and lonely should seek
sociability and love wherever they think they can find it. It is
only when the para-social relationship becomes a substitute for
autonomous social participation, when it proceeds in absolute
defiance of objective reality, that it can be regarded as
pathological.[20]
The existence of a
marginal segment of the lonely in American society has been
recognized by the mass media themselves, and from time to time
specially designed offerings have been addressed to this minority.[21] In these programs, the maximum illusion of a personal,
intimate relationship has been attempted. They represent the
extreme development of the para-social, appealing to the most
isolated, and illustrate, in an exaggerated way, the principles we
believe to apply through the whole range of “personality” programs.
The programs which fall in this extreme category promise not only
escape from an unsatisfactory and drab reality, but try to prop up
the sagging self-esteem of their unhappy audience by the most
blatant reassurances. Evidently on the presumption that the maximum
of loneliness is the lack of a sexual partner, these programs tend
to be addressed to one sex or the other, and to endow the persona
with an erotic suggestiveness.[22]
Such seems to have been
the purpose and import of The Lonesome Gal, a short radio
program which achieved such popularity in 1951 that it was broadcast
in ninety different cities. Within a relatively short time, the
program spread from Hollywood, where it had originated, across the
country to New York, where it was heard each evening at 11:15.[23]
The outline of the
program was simplicity itself. After a preliminary flourish of
music, and an identifying announcement, the main and only character
was ushered into the presence of the audience. She was exactly as
represented, apparently a lonesome girl, but without a name or a
history. Her entire performance consisted of an unbroken monologue
unembarrassed by plot, climax, or-denouement. On the continuum of
para-social action, this is the very opposite of self-contained
drama; it is, in fact, nothing but the reciprocal of the spectator’s
own para-social role. The Lonesome Gal simply spoke in a throaty,
unctuous voice whose suggestive sexiness belied the seeming modesty
of her words.[24]
From the first, the Lonesome Gal took a strongly
intimate line, almost as if she were addressing a lover in the utter
privacy of some hidden rendezvous:
Darling, you look so tired, and a little put out
about something this evening. . . . You are worried, I feel it
Lover, you need rest . . . rest and someone who understands you.
Come, lie down on the couch, relax, I want to stroke your hair
gently ... I am with you now, always with you. You are never
alone, you must never forget that you mean everything to me, that I
live only for you, your Lonesome Gal.
At some time in the course of each program, the
Lonesome Gal specifically assured her listeners that these
endearments were not being addressed to the hale and handsome, the
clever and the well-poised, but to the shy, the withdrawn – the
lonely men who had always dreamed, in their inmost reveries, of
finding a lonesome girl to comfort them.
The world is literally full of such lonesome girls,
she urged; like herself, they were all seeking love and
companionship. Fate was unkind, however, and they were disappointed
and left in unrequited loneliness, with no one to console them. On
the radio, the voice was everybody’s Lonesome Gal:
Don’t you see, darling, that I am only one of
millions of lonely girls. I belong to him who spends his Sundays in
museums, who strolls in Central Park looking sadly at the lovers
there. But I am more fortunate than any of these lovers, because I
have you. Do you know that I am always thinking about you? ... You
need someone to worry about you, who will look after your health,
you need me. I share your hopes and your disappointments. I, your
Lonesome Gal, your girl, to whom you so often feel drawn in the big
city where so many are lonely.
The Lonesome Gal was inundated with thousands of
letters tendering proposals of marriage, the writers respectfully,
assuring her that she was indeed the woman for whom they had been
vainly searching all their lives.
As a character in a radio program, the Lonesome Gal
had certain advantages in the cultivation of para-social attachments
over television offerings of a similar tenor. She was literally an
unseen presence, and each of her listeners could, in his mind’s eye,
picture her as his fancy dictated. She could, by an act of the
imagination, be almost any age or any size, have any background.
Not so Miss Nancy Berg,
who began to appear last year in a five-minute television spot
called Count Sheep.[25] She is seen at 1a.m. each weekday. After an announcement
card has flashed to warn the audience that she is about to appear,
and a commercial has been read, the stage is entirely given over to
Miss Berg. She emerges in a lavishly decorated bedroom clad in a
peignoir, or negligee, minces around the room, stretches, yawns,
jumps into bed, and then wriggles out again for a final romp with
her French poodle. Then she crawls under the covers, cuddles up for
the night, and composes herself for sleep. The camera pans down for
an enormous close-up, and the microphones catch Miss Berg whispering
a sleepy “Good-night.” From out of the distance soft music fades
in, and the last thing the viewers see is a cartoon of sheep jumping
over a fence. The program is over.
There is a little more to the program than this.
Each early morning, Miss Berg is provided with a special bit of
dialogue or business which, brief though it is, delights her
audience afresh:
Once, she put her
finger through a pizza pie, put the pie on a record player and what
came out was Dean Martin singing “That’s Amore.” She has read, with
expression, from “Romeo and Juliet,” “Of Time and the River,” and
her fan mail. She has eaten grapes off a toy ferris-wheel and held
an imaginary telephone conversation with someone who, she revealed
when it was all over, had the wrong number.[26]
Sometimes she regales her viewers with a personal
detail. For instance, she has explained that the dog which appears
on the show is her own. Its name is “Phae-deaux,” she disclosed
coyly, pronounced “Fido.”
It takes between twenty and twenty-six people, aside
from Miss Berg herself, to put this show on the air; and all of them
seem to be rather bemused by the success she is enjoying. Her
manager, who professes himself happily baffled by the whole thing,
tried to discover some of the reasons for this success in a recent
interview when he was questioned about the purpose of the show:
Purpose? The purpose
was, Number 1, to get a sponsor; Number 2, to give people a chance
to look at a beautiful girl at 1 o’clock in the morning; Number 3,
to do some off-beat stuff. I think this girl’s going to be a big
star, and this was a way to get attention for her. We sure got it.
She’s a showman, being slightly on the screwball side, but there’s a
hell of a brain there. She just doesn’t touch things – she caresses
things. Sometimes, she doesn’t say anything out loud, maybe she’s
thinking what you’re thinking.”[27]
The central fact in this explanation seems to be the
one which touches on Miss Berg’s ability to suggest to her audience
that she is privy to, and might share, their inmost thoughts. This
is precisely the impression that the Lonesome Gal attempted to
create, more directly and more conversationally, in her monologue.
Both programs were geared to fostering and maintaining the illusion
of intimacy which we mentioned earlier in our discussion. The
sexiness of both these programs must, we think, be read in this
light. They are seductive in more than the ordinary sense. Sexual
suggestive-ness is used probably because it is one of the most
obvious cues to a supposed intimacy – a catalytic for prompt
sociability. Such roles as Miss Berg and the Lonesome Gal portray
require a strict adherence to a standardized portrayal of their
“personalities.” Their actual personalities, and the details of
their backgrounds, are not allowed to become sharply focused and
differentiated, for each specification of particular detail might
alienate some part of the audience, or might interfere with
rapport. Thus, Miss Berg, despite the apparent intimacy of her show
– the audience is invited into her bedroom – refuses to disclose her
“dimensions,” although this is a piece of standard information
freely available about movie beauties.
The Lonesome Gal
was even more strict regarding personal details. Only once did she
appear in a public performance away from her radio show. On that
occasion she wore a black mask over her face, and was introduced to
her “live” audience on the same mysteriously anonymous terms as she
met her radio audience. Rumor, however, was not idle, and one may
safely presume that these rumors ran current to provide her with a
diffuse glamour of a kind which her audience would think
appropriate. It was said that she lived in Hollywood, but that she
originally came from Texas, a state which, in popular folklore,
enjoys a lively reputation for improbabilities and extravagances.
Whispers also had it that French and Indian blood coursed in her
veins, a combination all too likely to suggest wildness and passion
to the stereotypes of her listeners. For the rest, nothing was
known of her, and no further details were apparently ever permitted.
The Image as Artifact
The encouragement of, not to say demand for, a sense
of intimacy with the persona and an appreciation of him as a “real”
person is in contradiction to the fact that the image he presents is
to some extent a construct – a facade – which bears little
resemblance to his private character. The puritanical conventions
of the contemporary media make this facade a decidedly namby-pamby
one. With few exceptions, the popular figures of radio and
television are, or give the appearance of being, paragons of
middle-class virtue with decently modest intellectual capacities.
Since some of them are really very intelligent and all of them are,
like the rest of us, strong and weak, good and bad, the facade is
maintained only by concealing discrepancies between the public image
and the private life.
The standard technique
is not to make the private life an absolute secret – for the
interest of the audience cannot be ignored – but to create an
acceptable facade of private life as well, a more or less contrived
private image of the life behind the contrived public image. This
is the work of the press agent, the publicity man, and the fan
magazine. How successfully they have done their work is perhaps
indicated by the current vogue of magazines devoted to the “dirt”
behind the facade.[28]
Public preoccupation with the private lives of stars
and personae is not self-explanatory. Sheer appreciation and
understanding of their performances as actors, singers, or
entertainers does not depend upon information about them as
persons. And undoubtedly many members of the audience do enjoy them
without knowing or caring to know about their homes, children,
sports cars, or favorite foods, or keeping track of the ins and outs
of their marriages and divorces. It has often been said that the
Hollywood stars – and their slightly less glamorous colleagues of
radio and television – are modern “heroes” in whom are embodied
popular cultural values, and that the interest in them is a form of
hero-worship and vicarious experience through identification. Both
of these interpretations may be true; we would emphasize, however, a
third motive – the confirmation and enrichment of the para-social
relation with them. It may be precisely because this is basically
an illusion that such an effort is required to confirm it. It seems
likely that those to whom para-social relationships are important
must constantly strive to overcome the inherent limitations of these
relationships, either by elaborating the image of the other, or by
attempting to transcend the illusion by making some kind of actual
contact with him.
Given the prolonged
intimacy of para-social relations with the persona, accompanied by
the assurance that beyond the illusion there is a real person, it is
not surprising that many members of the audience become dissatisfied
and attempt to establish actual contact with him. Under exactly
what conditions people are motivated to write to the performer, or
to go further and attempt to meet him – to draw from him a personal
response – we do not know. The fan phenomenon has been studied to
some extent,[29]
but fan clubs and fan demonstrations are likely to be group affairs,
motivated as much by the values of collective participation with
others as by devotion to the persona himself. There are obvious
social rewards for the trophies of contact with the famous or
notorious – from autographs to handkerchiefs dipped in the dead
bandit’s blood – which invite toward their possessor some shadow of
the attitudes of awe or admiration originally directed to their
source. One would suppose that contact with, and recognition by,
the persona transfers some of his prestige and influence to the
active fan. And most often such attempts to reach closer to the
persona are limited to letters and to visits. But in the extreme
case, the social rewards of mingling with the mighty are foregone
for the satisfaction of some deeply private purpose. The follower
is actually “in love” with the persona, and demands real reciprocity
which the para-social relation cannot provide.
A case in point is
provided in the “advice” column of a newspaper.[30] The writer, Miss A, has “fallen in love” with a television
star, and has begun to rearrange and reorder her life to conform to
her devotion to this man whom she has never actually met. It is
significant, incidentally, that the man is a local per former – the
probability of actually meeting him must seem greater than would be
the case if he were a New York or Hollywood figure. The border
between Miss A’s fantasies and reality is being steadily encroached
upon by the important affective investment she has made in this
relationship. Her letter speaks for itself:
It has taken me two weeks to get the nerve to write
this letter. I have fallen head over heels in love with a local
television star. We’ve never met and I’ve seen him only on the TV
screen and in a play. This is not a 16-year-old infatuation, for I
am 23, a college graduate and I know the score. For the last two
months I have stopped dating because all men seem childish by
comparison. Nothing interests me. I can’t sleep and my modeling
job bores me. Please give me some advice.
The writer of this letter would seem to be not one of
the lonely ones, but rather a victim of the ‘magic mirror’ in which
she sees a man who plays the role reciprocal to hers so ‘ideally’
that all the men she actually knows “seem childish by comparison.”
Yet this is not the image of a fictional hero; it is a ‘real’ man.
It is interesting that the newspaper columnist, in replying, chooses
to attack on this point – not ridiculing the possibility of a
meeting with the star, but denying the reality of the image:
I don’t know what you learned in college, but you are
flunking the course of common sense. You have fallen for a piece of
celluloid as unreal as a picture on the wall. The personality you
are goofy about on the TV screen is a hoked-up character, and any
similarity between him and the real man is purely miraculous.
This case is revealing, however, not only because it
attests to the vigor with which a para-social relationship may
become endowed, but also because it demonstrates how narrow the line
often is between the more ordinary forms of social interaction and
those which characterize relations with the persona. In an extreme
case, such as that of Miss A, her attachment to the persona has
greatly invaded her everyday life – so much so that, without
control, it will warp or destroy her relations with the opposite
sex. But the extreme character of this response should not obscure
the fact that ordinarily para-social relations do “play back,” as it
were, into the daily lives of many. The man who reports to his
friend the wise thing that Godfrey said, who carefully plans not to
make another engagement at the time his favorite is on, is
responding similarly, albeit to a different and milder degree.
Para-social interaction, as we have said, is analogous to and in
many ways resembles social interaction in ordinary primary groups.
The new mass media are obviously distinguished by
their ability to confront a member of the audience with an
apparently intimate, face-to-face association with a performer.
Nowhere does this feature of their technological resources seem more
forcefully or more directly displayed than in the “personality”
program. In these programs a new kind of performer, the persona, is
featured whose main attribute seems to be his ability to cultivate
and maintain this suggested intimacy. As he appears before his
audience, in program after program, he carries on recurrent social
transactions with his adherents; he sustains what we have called
para-social interaction. These adherents, as members of his
audience, play a psychologically active role which, under some
conditions, but by no means invariably, passes over into the more
formal, overt, and expressive activities of fan behavior.
As an implicit response to the performance of the
persona, this para-social interaction is guided and to some extent
controlled by him. The chief basis of this guidance and control,
however, lies in the imputation to the spectator of a kind of role
complementary to that of the persona himself. This imputed
complementary role is social in character, and is some variant of
the role or roles normally played in the spectator’s primary social
groups. It is defined, demonstrated, and inculcated by numerous
devices of radio and television showmanship. When it has been
learned, the persona is assured that the entire transaction between
himself and the audience – of which his performance is only one
phase – is being properly completed” by the unseen audience.
Seen from this standpoint, it seems to follow that
there is no such discontinuity between everyday and para-social
experience as is suggested by the common practice, among observers
of these media, of using the analogy of fantasy or dream in the
interpretation of programs which are essentially dramatic in
character. The relationship of the devotee to the persona is, we
suggest, experienced as of the same order’ as, and related to, the
network of actual social relations. This, we believe, is even more
the case when the persona becomes a common object to the members of
the primary groups in which the spectator carries on his everyday
life. As a matter of fact, it seems profitable to consider the
interaction with the persona as a phase of the role-enactments of
the spectator’s daily life.
Our observations, in this paper, however, are
intended to be no more than suggestions for further work. It seems
to us that it would be a most rewarding approach to such phenomena
if one could, from the viewpoint of an interactional social
psychology, learn in detail how these para-social interactions are
integrated into the matrix of usual social activity.
In this connection, it is relevant to remark that
there is a tradition – now of relatively long standing – that
spectators, whether at sports events or television programs, are
relatively passive. This assertion enjoys the status of an
accredited hypothesis, but it is, after all, no more than a
hypothesis. If it is taken literally and uncritically, it may
divert the student’s attention from what is actually transpiring in
the audience. We believe that some such mode of analysis as we
suggest here attunes the student of the mass media to hints
within the program itself of cues to, and demands being made on,
the audience for particular responses. Prom such an analytical
vantage point the field of observation, so to speak, is widened and
the observer is able to see more that is relevant to the exchange
between performer and audience.
In essence, therefore, we would like to expand and
capitalize on the truism that the persona and the “personality”
programs are part of the lives of millions of people, by asking how
both are assimilated, and by trying to discover what effects these
responses have on the attitudes and actions of the audiences who are
so devoted to and absorbed in this side of American culture.
Notes
[1]
They may move out into positions of leadership in the world
at large as they become famous and influential. Frank
Sinatra, for example, has become known as a “youth leader.”
Conversely, figures from the political world, to choose
another example, may become media “personalities” when they
appear regularly. Fiorello LaGuardia, the late Mayor of New
York, is one such case.
[2]
Merton’s discussion of the attitude toward Kate Smith of her
adherents exemplifies, with much circumstantial detail, what
we have said above. See Robert K. Merton, Marjorie Fiske,
and Alberta Curtis, Mass Persuasion; The Social
Psychology of a War Bond Drive; New York, Harper, 1946;
especially Chapter 6.
[3]
There does remain the possibility that over the course of
his professional life the persona, responding to influences
from his audience, may develop new conceptions of himself
and his role.
[4]
Dave Garroway as told to Joe Alex Morris, “I Lead a Goofy
Life,” The Saturday Evening Post, February 11, 1956;
p. 62.
[6]
See, for instance: George H. Mead, Mind, Self and
Society; Chicago, Univ. of Chicago Press, 1934. Walter
Coutu, Emergent Human Nature; New York, Knopf, 1949.
Rosalind Dymond, “Personality and Empathy,” J.
Consulting Psychol. (1950) 14:343-350.
[7]
Burke uses this expression to describe an attitude evoked by
formal rhetorical devices, but it seems equally appropriate
here. See Kenneth Burke, A Rhetoric of Motives; New
York, Prentice-Hall, 1950; p. 58.
[8]
This is in contrast to the closed system of the drama, in
which all the roles are predetermined In their mutual
relations.
[9]
Kenneth Burke, Attitudes Toward History, Vol. 1; New
York, New Republic Publishing Co., 1937; see, for instance,
p. 104.
[10]
See Merton’s acute analysis of the audience’s demand for
“sincerity” as a reassurance against manipulation.
Reference footnote 2; pp. 142-146.
[11]
These attributes have been strikingly discussed by Mervyn
LeRoy, a Hollywood director. In a recent book. Although he
refers specifically to the motion-picture star, similar
notions are common In other branches of show business.
“What draws you to certain people?” he asks. “I have said
before that you can’t be a really fine actress or actor
without heart. You also have to possess the ability to
project that heart, that feeling and emotion. The sympathy
In your eyes will show. The audience has to feel sorry for
the person on the screen. If there aren’t moments when,
rightly or wrongly, he moves the audience to sympathy,
there’s an actor who will never be big box-office.” Mervyn
LeRoy and Alyce Canfield, It Takes More Than Talent;
New York, Knopf, 1953; p. 114.
[12]
Once an actor has succeeded hi establishing a good
relationship with his audience in a particular kind of
dramatic role, he may be “typed” In that role. Stereotyping
in the motion-picture Industry is often rooted in the belief
that sustained rapport with the audience can be achieved by
repeating past success. (This principle is usually
criticized as detrimental to the talent of the actor, but it
is a sine qua non for the persona whose professional success
depends upon creating and sustaining a plausible and
unchanging Identity.) Sometimes, indeed, the Hollywood
performer will actually take his name from a successful
role; this Is one of the principles on which Warner Brothers
Studios selects the names of some of Its actors. For
Instance, Donna Lee Hickey was renamed Mae Wynn after a
character she portrayed, with great distinction, in The
Caine Mutiny. See “Names of Hollywood Actors,” Names
(1955) 3:116.
[13]
The “loyalty” which Is demanded of the audience is not
necessarily passive or confined only to patronizing the
persona’s performance. Its active demonstration is called
for in charity appeals, “marathons,” and “telethons”; and,
of course, it is expected to be freely transferable to the
products advertised by the performer. Its most active form
is represented by the organization of fan clubs with
programs of activities and membership obligations, which
give a continuing testimony of loyalty.
[14]
Comedians on radio and television frequently chide their
audience if they do not laugh at the appropriate places, or
if their response is held to be Inadequate. The comedian
tells the audience that if they don’t respond promptly, he
won’t wait, whereupon the audience usually provides the
demanded laugh. Sometimes the chiding is more oblique, as
when the comedian interrupts his performance to announce
that he will fire the writer of the unsuccessful Joke.
Again, the admonition to respond correctly is itself treated
as a joke and is followed by a laugh.
[16]
See, for example, W. Lloyd Warner and William E. Henry,
“The Radio Day Time Serial: A Symbolic Analysis,” Genetic
Psychol. Monographs (1948) 37: 3-71, the study of a
daytime radio serial program in which it is shown that
upper-middle-class women tend to reject identification with
lower-middle-class women represented in the drama. Yet some
people are willing to take unfamiliar roles. This appears
to be especially characteristic of the intellectual whose
distinction is not so much that he has cosmopolitan tastes
and knowledge, but that he has the capacity to transcend the
limits of his own culture in his identifications.
Remarkably little is known about how this ability is
developed.
[17]
Most students of the mass media occupy a cultural level
somewhat above that of the most popular programs and
personalities of the media, and necessarily look down upon
them. But it should not be forgotten that for many millions
Indulgence In these media is a matter of looking up. Is it
not also possible that some of the media permit a welcome
regression, for some, from the higher cultural standards of
their present status? This may be one explanation of the
vogue of detective stories and science fiction among
intellectuals, and might also explain the escape downward
from middle-class standards in the literature of “low life”
generally.
[18]
It is frequently charged that the media’s description of
this side of life is partial, shallow”, and often false. It
would be easier and more profitable to evaluate these
criticisms if they were formulated in terms of role-theory.
From the viewpoint of any given role it would be interesting
to know how well the media take account of the values and
expectations of the role-reciprocators. What range of
legitimate variations in role performance is acknowledged?
How much attention is given to the problems arising from
changing roles, and how creatively are these problems
handled? These are only a few of the many similar questions
which at once come to mind.
[19]
There is a close analogy here with one type of newspaper
human-interest story which records extreme instances of
role-achievement and their rewards. Such stories detail
cases of extreme longevity, marriages of especially long
duration, large numbers of children; deeds of heroism—role
performance under “impossible” conditions; extraordinary
luck, prizes, and so on.
[20]
Dave Garroway, after making the point that he has many
“devout” admirers, goes on to say that “some of them ...
were a bit too devout.” He tells the story of one lady
“from a Western state” who “arrived in Chicago [where he was
then broadcasting], registered at a big hotel as Mrs. Dave
Garroway, opened several charge accounts in my name and
established a joint bank account in which she deposited a
large sum of money. Some months later she took a taxi to my
hotel and informed the desk clerk she was moving in. He
called a detective agency that we had engaged to check up on
her, and they persuaded her to return home. Since then
there have been others, but none so persistent.” Reference
footnote 4; p. 62.
[21]
This group presumably includes those for whom “Lonely
Hearts” and “Pen Pal” clubs operate.
[22]
While the examples which follow are of female personae
addressing themselves to male audiences, it should be noted
that for a time there was also a program on television
featuring The Continental, who acted the part of a debonair
foreigner and whose performance consisted of murmuring
endearing remarks to an invisible female audience. He wore
evening clothes and cut a figure in full conformity with the
American stereotype of a suave European lover.
[23]
This program apparently evoked no very great amount of
comment or criticism in the American press, and we are
indebted to an article in a German illustrated weekly for
details about the show, and for the verbatim quotations from
the Lonesome Gal’s monologue which we have retranslated into
English. See
“Ich bin bel dir, Liebling ... ,” Weltbild (Munich),
March 1, 1952; p.12.
[24]
This is in piquant contrast to the popular singers, the
modesty of whose voice and mien is often belied by the
sexiness of the words in the songs they sing.
[25]
The details relating to this show are based on Gilbert
Millstein, “Tired of It All?” The New York Times Magazine,
September 18, 1955; p. 44. See also “Beddy-Bye,” Time,
August 15, 1955, p. 45.
[26]The New York Times Magazine, reference footnote 25.
[27]The New York Times Magazine, reference footnote 25.
[28]
Such magazines as Uncensored and Confidential
(which bears the subtitle, “Tells the Facts and Names the
Names”) enjoy enormous circulations, and may be thought of
as the very opposite of the fan magazine. They claim to
“expose” the person behind the persona.
[29]
M. F. Thorp, America at the Movies; New Haven, Yale
Univ. Press, 1939. S. Stansfeld Sargent, Social
Psychology; New York, Ronald Press, 1950. K. P.
Berliant, “The Nature and Emergence of Fan Behavior”
(unpublished M.A. Thesis, Univ. of Chicago).
[30]
Ann Landers, “Your Problems,” Chicago Sun-Times,
October 25, 1955; p. 36.
Department of Sociology, University of Chicago
Committee of Human Development, University of Chicago
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